Marriage Musts #13 - No Secrets!

No Secrets! There should never be any secrets between you and your spouse (with the exception of birthday, anniversary and Christmas presents/parties) Secrets breed suspicion, distrust and discord. When you are married you become one flesh. As one flesh you share everything. In our marriage, we both have access to each other's phones, social network passwords, blogs, etc. There are no secrets and it works great for us. When you are open and honest with each other and practice transparency, there are no surprises which will hurt the other person. In sharing everything there becomes a sense of unexpected freedom instead of being in bondage to the secrets.